舊習俗與新人類的平衡點

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這兩天整理一下家，也整理一下自己的外接硬碟，免得它們有任何突發狀況，資料叫不回來就糟糕了。資料要隨時記得備份。

順便看了一下有什麼可以先貼一下，因為太久沒更新了。

看到黃正文老師貼的一篇文章，蠻有意思的，與大家分享。

到底怎樣才是對的？

誠心就好誠心就好…

好好笑~ 中元普渡….看看新世代媳婦怎麼拜(要看完ㄡ~愈後面愈厲害ㄡ…)

我們一群女孩子嫁出去之後，家中的掃墓活動就冷清了許多，不過拜拜越來越簡單，也越來越奇特。

婆婆家祭祖拜神的米酒，其實就是寶特瓶的水裡面放了幾顆米，我搞不清楚為什麼會這個樣子，不過，我婆婆卻老神在在的說：

「有水有米，他們會自己釀成米酒。」(是這樣嗎？)

以前幫祖先倒酒，通常第一遍倒個三分滿，過了約十分鐘後 ! 才倒第二次酒，  再過十分鐘後又倒第三次酒，

不過婆婆家卻是 ,倒了第一次酒後馬上倒第二次， 然後又馬上倒第三次，她說這樣–祖先比較不會等太久。（這是怎樣，要祖先一開始胃空空就來個先乾三杯ㄇ？）

嫁出去的女兒不能拜自己家祖先嗎？以前人都這樣說，不過這次我爺爺忌日，我媽媽就去跟祖先牌位說：

「不好意思！那天大家剛好都有事情，只好嫁出去的大女兒回來祭拜您，

如果您老人! 家覺得她嫁出去不可以拜，就是不認她是您孫女，那就餓肚子吧！」（真是夠犀利ㄚ！）

後來老媽得到舅媽的指示，以後就選一年過年祭祖的時候，敬告各位回來吃年夜飯的祖先，您們的忌日因為大家工作繁忙，以後我就不一一的拜了，一律到九九重陽節一次拜齊，請大家要記得已經改時間了，所以不要回來吃不到心理不高興~~（哈！老 媽還為此種方法得意很久呢！）

話說我媽的姊妹淘更是厲害，這位阿姨因為有一次從一樓的廚房將菜端到三樓的神明廳的途中，在樓梯間跌倒，整盤菜就散落在樓梯間，她因此很生氣，

想說這些祖先神明既然有神通的力量或鬼通的力量，就應該不需要爬樓梯，因此從此之後，她就煮好飯菜，放在一樓廚房的餐桌上排好，然後一個人上到三樓神明廳，「請眾祖先神明『移駕』下樓吃飯！」

將阿姨跟婆婆的方法告訴了一個朋友之後，她竟然很疑惑的看著我說：

「這很奇怪嗎？我媽媽現在都直接包個紅包給祖先，請他們自己喜歡吃什麼自己去買去！」（真的假的呀？ 學起來！）

後來去一個佛堂那邊拜拜，忽然看到她們佛桌前面的! 供品竟然是一盤香皂，一種很傳統式的平安淨身皂，我就問說：「怎麼？可以拜香皂嗎？」

旁邊一個朋友就說：「你都認為他們會上來吃飯兼賞花了，難道不能洗澡嗎？」（是、是，大姐說的是，那要不要擺澡盆呢？）

有一天，我家的老爺不小心透露了我在台北家中拜地基主的方式給婆婆聽，婆婆就大驚小怪的跑來問我說：「地基主都要拜煮好的牲禮，聽說你竟然拜?K利商店買的罐頭、綠豆（ 只有整包綠豆喔！沒煮！）

還有根本沒有煮的整包冬粉喔！哪有人這樣的？」婆婆質問的說著。

這時候，我這個乖媳婦就一臉茫然，完全無辜的表情說：「不行嗎？我不知道耶！」

我的心裡OS說：「奇怪?你們家的神明就可以給水加米讓他自己去釀米酒了，

怎麼我家的地基主不可以給他冬粉、綠豆、罐頭，讓他自己煮冬粉、煮綠豆湯、開罐頭吃呢！」（ 超級歐巴桑們真是太利害了！通通學起來~~~~)

—-! 我老公家的拜拜新招—-(我覺得這一招最經典)

清明拜的三牲-

麥香雞、麥香魚、豬肉滿福堡

你沒看錯，就是麥當勞啦!

後來我有表達…. 麥香雞改成我愛吃的肯德基 !!!

沒錯心誠就好。

在海外的我們也得想一想如何教導在海外長大的子女與學生們。好大的一個問題。

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